Let’s talk about how the fawn response could be sabotaging your ability to make and hold money.

Your nervous system is wired for love, safety and belonging.

Fawning helps you unconsciously preserve relationships by pleasing others if you believe being yourself, having more money or doing something new or unknown to your family or friends will cost you love, safety or belonging.

Fawning is that instinct to people-please, to keep the peace, to make yourself small so others feel comfortable—and it runs deep when it comes to money.

Especially for women.

You hit a new income milestone and suddenly you feel…guilty.

You’re making money easily while your best friend is struggling and you feel like you’re betraying them.

You imagine out-earning your parents or siblings or certain men in your family and this quiet shame creeps in—like you’ve broken some kind of unspoken loyalty.

So you hold back. You undercharge. You don’t raise your prices. You blow through money as fast as you make it or sabotage a launch right before it takes off.

Because somewhere deep inside…there’s this quiet vow: If the people I love are struggling, I don’t get to thrive.

Or maybe even: If I’m rich and they’re not, I’m selfish, dangerous, bad, greedy, ungrateful.

The fawn response was how you learned to stay safe. To be the “good girl” who didn’t rock the boat. To protect your place in the family, in your friend circle, in the world.

But that vow of poverty and struggle? It’s not yours to keep.

You’re not betraying anyone by thriving—you’re showing them what’s possible. Especially when you choose to rest, relax, live in pleasure AND have fuck tons of money.

You’re not abandoning your loved ones by having money, being the most relaxed version of yourself or thriving—you’re breaking generational curses and cycles.

You’re breaking patterns that have been passed down for generations through bloodline and behavior. Like having to work hard, sacrifice or survive.

You can be loyal to the people you love AND be rich, relaxed, fulfilled, well fucked, well rested.

You can love your best friend through her income dip AND celebrate your biggest month yet.

You can surpass your family’s income level AND still love and honor them.

Or set boundaries, cut ties or walk away without carrying guilt for centering and prioritizing yourself.
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Abundance isn’t betrayal.
Making money isn’t selfish.
Thriving when others aren’t isn’t bad.
Success doesn’t make you dangerous—it makes you a lighthouse.

Let yourself rise. The ones who are meant to rise with you will follow.

Let yourself deepen. The ones who are meant to stay will go deeper with you.

Ready to break free from the survival mode patterns keeping you small, stressed and stuck in scarcity?

That’s what my 30-day Relaxed Woman Course is for!

The fawn response was about survival—but you’re not here to survive anymore. You’re here to thrive.

​Relaxed Woman is where you’ll release those deep-seated patterns of guilt, shame and holding back WHERE THEY’RE STORED IN YOUR BODY—and step into ease, pleasure and abundance.

Inside this 30-day container, you’ll learn to feel safe holding more money, pleasure, rest and success—without guilt, sabotage or fear of leaving others behind, being rejected or abandoned.
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🔥Release the need to shrink, settle for crumbs and please others instead of yourself.
🔥Feel grounded, confident and safe holding money, pleasure, rest and success.
🔥Create nervous system safety so you can let it be easy.

This isn’t about forcing or hustling—it’s about softening into trust, pleasure and overflow.

Your body is the pathway.

​Join Relaxed Woman—let your nervous system feel safe enough to receive more than enough.

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