I think the reason I struggled with creating the life I really wanted…one that included an abundance of money, beautiful clients to serve, a business that felt pleasurable and passionate and an amazing relationship (and more)…was because I didn’t understand the innate sexual design of the manifestation process.
I was only connecting to it intellectually and often found myself searching for formulas and mind-based ways of going about it. I was leaving my body and sexuality out of it…which was a huge mistake.
Manifesting things in our lives is actually something very biological and natural for us. It’s innately very sexual.
Sure, we can use tons of techniques (many of which I teach and expand upon in a more pleasurable way in my online course Solo Sex Magic) and we can work on mindset, affirmations and visualizations…but it’s actually a sexual process that happens naturally just like sex and making a baby.
There is a lot of union going on within when we manifest, especially through the practice of sex magic. Just like in the process sex and procreation.
The union of sperm and egg is replaced by the union of upper and lower chakras in your orgasmic heart chakra. In Solo Sex Magic we work on cultivating an orgasmic heart.
Why? Because the electromagnetic field of the heart is actually much broader than the brain’s electromagnetic field. The heart chakra is designed to hold larger amounts of electrical, sexual energy.
And this union that takes place in the heart space is what allows us to come into WHOLENESS and full energetic alignment with what we want and why we want it.
It’s fueled from all angles here. The devotion of love from your heart. The expansive desire to grow as a divine being from your soul. The urge to understand more from the mind…and the sexual urge to continue expanding, growing and LIVING as a human.
Because if we stop growing, expanding and living…we die. In all forms. Spiritually, emotionally, physically, sexually, etc.
There is also the essential union between sexual energy (the energy that creates LIFE) and intention. A thought, intention or desire becomes impregnated and supercharged with sexual energy.
The reason sex magic makes this an even more potent and significant form of manifestation is that you build MORE sexual energy consciously, which means you have even more energy behind your desire.
You strap a rocket to your desire and watch it blast off. You feel the union taking place within. The merging of all sides of who you are (this is important and why we bring sexual shadow work into the sex magic practice in the course).
Manifestation reminds me of Shiva and Shakti. The witness and the life-force energy coming together in erotic union within. Uniting both/all sides of ourselves to bring awareness and to create.
So yes, when you manifest something (whether it’s “wanted” or “unwanted”) just know that there was a sexual union that took place somewhere within you in order for that to become a reality.
Maybe it was a conscious part of you that wanted it or maybe it was a hidden part of you who didn’t want it for some reason, but rather wanted something else instead (most likely to protect you and keep you safe).
Either way, dropping your awareness down between your hips to your womb and pussy (or the energetic womb if you’ve had yours removed) will help you acknowledge the sexual process that happens when you create your own life by design.
Just like you have the potential to gestate life, you have the potential to gestate YOUR own life. In the energetic container of your womb (yes, even if you’ve had a hysterectomy) and to birth it down and out through your vagina into the real world.
Solo Sex Magic is designed to show you the sexual way of manifestation through ritual, practice and powerful sexual energy work.
Your manifestation powers will amplify.
Your body will be able to hold more of what you want through training your body and nervous system to hold more sexual energy, which is creative energy.
You’ll have a better relationship with manifesting and even understand why you might repeat certain patterns or manifest “unwanted” things in your life and how you can heal the split within that causes that.
You’ll have a ritual and practice that allows you to use pleasure, sexual energy and orgasmic states to call things into existence.
You’ll become the CREATRESS you always knew you were meant to be…and you’ll realize that you always were and always will be.
With love,
Amber
P.S. Doors are open until 3/20 right before Midnight for Solo Sex Magic. Check out full details or enroll here.
P.P.S. If you want a free taste of the solo sex magic process and practice, download my Solo Sex Magic ebook here.