Have you ever opened Instagram or Facebook and saw another woman’s post who you admire and felt your stomach drop…
Because she’s a whole damn vibe that you want to be…and you know deep down that YOU are that whole damn vibe too🔥
She’s living her life in a way you desire to live too
The luxe travel
The gorgeous restaurant setting
The hot sex
The extravagant charcuterie & drinks shared with girlfriends
The passionate relationship
The money
The iconic style
Feeling confident in her body and sexuality
Being magnetic…and oozing that magnetism in one damn photo (and the caption…omg! You long to say things like that too)
She’s saying the things
She’s in her power in a way you haven’t given yourself permission to be
She’s following her soul and desire OUT LOUD
She’s expressed in a way you crave to be
She’s getting the likes and comments from her people eagerly eating it all up
Her community is energetically turned on and engaged
I’ve been here too & I’ll tell you how I move through it!! In fact, I had to move through this today as I experienced some envy on a colleagues IG post…and I did exactly what I’m sharing below
Have you ever clicked off her post and then felt that pit on your stomach or throat as you realize you feel disconnected, turned off & not fully embodied in your soul’s potential?
Your erotic, power, creative and financial potential
You haven’t even scratched the surface of who what you’re here to do, be, have and experience & you’re terrified that…
You’ll never be who the fuck you came here to be (so you’ll always feel this low-level of envy, numbness and avoidance)
AND that if you do show up fully as yourself you’ll be too much and turn everyone off
People might judge or shame you for being THAT bitch
Being THAT big
Living THAT kind of lifestyle
Maybe you want to live in a community with multiple lovers, to travel the world staying in luxe locations or you desire to stand out online in your power, wealth &/or eroticism
What if this experience (that we label as jealousy, comparison or envy) in your body is a compass pointing you in the right direction?
What if it’s showing you that you’re made for more and it’s time to show the fuck up like you believe that?
What if YOU are the one who’s here to live all of that & be fully you in your own way?
I’ve felt this so many times and what I know is this:
You get to have that too in your own way
You’re the one
It’s time
You’re ready
You can meet these moments of discomfort with eros and pleasure…and they’re actually getting you closer to who you’re here to be
You can seduce your way through
You can use this as red-hot fuel to be who the fuck you came here to be
You’re not other or separate from her
Lean in and decide you’re committed to living your desires and life FULLY too
I’ve experienced this so many times (even with my own coaches) and here’s how I handle it:
1. I feel the pure, raw sensations in my body
2. I bring in soothing and/or pleasure
3. I decide that this is a sign I’m ready to be more me and live the way I really desire to live
4. I thank her for being an activator in my mind
5. I remember I’m not separate
6. I give myself permission to incrementally step into those parts of myself
7. I own and celebrate how amazing I am now and as a I grow
8. I stay in my own lane & feel my own power as opposed to worrying about what others are doing & trying to do that too
I also send messages to my coach clearing it
I have certain processes I use that are powerful as fuck but it’s gets to be that easy
But remember: you’re a powerful fucking bitch & this is just helping you align 1000x faster to who you came here to be
So can you lean in & let it have its way with you…in the hottest way possible so that you can powerfully step into your next level?
Because your people are dripping in anticipation waiting for you to do that so they can throw their money at you
One of the last times I felt this way was before I started working with my mastermind coach in early 2020
I was deeply activated by the way she expressed herself online, talking about making multiple 6 figures galavanting around in her lingerie (& around the world) and now I’m embodying MY version of that
I also felt the same way before hiring my 1:1 coach…she was living in a certain way that I wasn’t fully embodying
So guess what? I leaned in and hired them both to learn from them, calibrate to that “next level bitch” version of myself by being around women doing things the way I want to do them and BEING the way I want to be BEING
Aka doing and being from PLEASURE & PUSSY
And now?
🔥I’m expressing myself online in a way that turns me on…like I read and listen to my own content…and it makes me HOT!
I’m like “how could women NOT want to pay me to learn this from me???!!”
💦I have clients who are next level bitches who make me want to pinch myself with gratitude so deep it makes me cry regularly (often to Lana Del Rey. She’s my go to for any crying whether sadness or gratitude…or both)
💰I’m getting paid while I watch Virgin River, sleep, have sex, take baths, drink iced chai with my daughter, etc.
🥂I’m setting my business up with WEALTH, FREEDOM & FUN at the forefront so that my family and I can travel, get into Airbnb as our 2nd business and live an even more upleveled luxe lifestyle together
By the way, I posted this on Facebook (in a group I’m in) and a woman honestly told me that she felt this way about my posts sometimes…so I’ve experienced both sides.
The one who envies and the one who is envied. And I can hold both.
This is what being an industry leader is about. This is what embodiment as a leader is about.
This is what nervous system regulation as a leader is about.
Leaning into discomfort and using that discomfort as a way of getting even more turned on by your own damn self.
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