Lately I’ve been dabbling with a style of sex that is much slower and less goal-oriented. 

Whether I’m self pleasuring or having sex with my partner, I like to slow down and dial up the sensuality.

I want to feel it all. Every touch, lick, stroke. Every inch of my lover’s cock sliding inside of me. I want to revel in the full range of pleasure, emotions and sexual energy being awakened, circulated and exchanged. 

All of this is pure ecstasy to me. 

I’ve never experienced the deep sexual ecstasy I crave from sex that is super quick (think jackhammer-style) or focused more on having an orgasm.

There’s too much tension and manipulation and typically when we’re focused on orgasm we speed up, thrust harder and start holding our breath, which blocks our flow of sexual energy. And sexual energy is key for more expansive, deeper, stronger, fulfilling orgasmic experiences. 

I like to give plenty of time, space and sensual intention for everything to unfold slowly and come into place. Most women barely get to feel fully aroused or experience the kind of connection, sex and intimacy they desire, because sex is focused so much around male ejaculation or getting it over with.

I remember those days. The days of unintentional sex where I would lie there while my ex was thrusting inside of me just wishing he’d hurry up and get it over with so I could go to sleep or watch Netflix. 

Slow sex has taught me how to deepen pleasure, arousal, sexual energy and connection with myself and my partner. Allow me to share some techniques you can bring in with ease to slow down your sex and expand your orgasmic experience. 

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The jade egg practice has allowed me to slow down sensually and feel more pleasure, which means I can get more pleasure from sex that is slow. Most women allow harder, faster thrusting because the vagina is so numb and closed down that they need quick, hard thrusting in order to feel anything at all. 

Slow sex can blow your mind, open your heart and invite in true ecstasy, especially when shared with your partner. The jade egg will train your vagina to first awaken sensation, pleasure and lubrication and knowing how to isolate the different sections of your vagina will make pleasure easier to access on a deeper, more fulfilling level. 

If you want to learn how to create open, orgasmic and supple pelvis and vagina through a jade egg practice, check out my free Jade Egg Sexual Mastery ebook.

I would love for you to share this video with any woman (or your lover!) in your life to spread the slow sex love! You can subscribe to my YouTube channel here to stay updated with my weekly video.

Now an invitation for you to go deeper:

• What do you think about slow sex?
• What comes up for you?
• What is your sexual experience like when it’s more slow & intentional? 
• What’s possible for you sexually if you slow down? 

xx

Amber

P.S. I have jade eggs back in stock! Last time they sold out within 2 weeks so if you’ve been wanting to get started on your practice, get your jade egg here.