The other morning I woke up in a mood. My partner wasn’t in bed with me when I woke up & I felt red-hot rage take over me, because I wanted to connect with him & he wasn’t there.
My seductress (who’s been feeling a little extra needy lately) felt resentful. Like she wasn’t wanted.
Obviously it has nothing to do with my partner really.
The seductress wants what she wants. She has needs & desires that she wants fulfilled.
And when those needs & desires go ignored or aren’t met (by ourselves first) the seductress can become resentful.
Fiery with rage or cold like a shut down ice queen. At least that’s what happens with me.
I knew if I didn’t do some of my erotic embodiment practices to give my own inner seductress what she needed, she’d remain resentful & bitchy all day.
I felt my rage & danced through it, same with my grief…my longing to be touched, wanted, loved, craved by my lover.
I danced through my eroticism & connected to my own power.
My seductress was fully unleashed in a safe container & after her unmet needs & desires were felt…& the longing of wanting them fulfilled was fully felt…I realized what was underneath it all.
My seductress just wants to be touched more.
I needed to speak up about my need for more touch (before I reach the point of icy avoidance & wrathful rage) AND most importantly, I needed to give MYSELF more touch.
The seductress is our connection to our power, permission, pleasure, confidence & freedom in the bedroom.
If her needs & desires go unmet, by us & our lovers, she will turn to resentment, manipulation, avoidance, victimhood, desperation, neediness, attention-seeking power dynamics.
This is why we excavate, embody & integrate our own seductress. So that we can fulfill her deepest longings & satisfy her innermost cravings & anything that needs to be met by another, can be done so with healthy, regulated expression.
Watch the video to find out more on how I handled my seductress who was feeling angry, resentful and unfulfilled the other day…
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With love & Eros,
Amber