I was supposed to launch my new sex magic incubator publicly yesterday, but I decided to go offline & live my life instead — let me explain.🫦
I’ve launched a million times it seems over the past 8.5 years.
I know when to lean more into strategy. Like planning ahead of time, scheduling main emails for the launch, having my VA make posts sharing the basic details, etc.
I call it Daddy Strategy — the practical, tangible systems, steps & structures that support the flow of money.
And I know when it’s more about the energetics.
The energy of the offer & my desired outcome along with how I’m feeling, how I’m being & who I’m being.
The truth is that something felt off.
Not because I don’t want to offer it — because I do & I will.
I checked in with myself — is this just resistance?
I got a no in my body.
So I felt deeper & this is what came through…
It felt like I was only 99% ready & giving myself space to become 100% is KEY for THIS launch.
Do I believe I always have to feel 100% to launch? No.
But as a sacral generator (2/4) in human design my deepest practice is following moment to moment satisfaction.
What lights me up & turns me on.
Eros.
Feeling that gut response & whole body YES.
And when I feel eros pulling me to something alive — I lean in.
Of course my minxy brain is flogging me (with an Italian leather flogger, of course.)
“You already fucked up so you can’t have your mind-blowing $ goal”
“You should just give up”
But I know better than that.
In fact when I reminisce on my most mind blowing results, moments & experiences…
The common thread is that I took an illogical route that seemed counterintuitive in the name of following my yes/eros/aliveness.
AND I WAS MORE FOCUSED ON THE PLEASURE OF LIVING MY LIFE THAN WHAT I “SHOULD” BE DOING TO SELL.
And when I do that, I open up.
When I force myself to launch when something isn’t quite aligned…it’s like forcing an orgasm.
And that has never felt that good to me.
It creates pressure, tension, contraction & feelings of being rushed.
Which is not what leads to mind blowing money, sex or orgasms.
So many moments blew my mind yesterday because I removed the idea that I HAD to & SHOULD be launching a certain way…
…or that I could fuck it up somehow & lose out on my desire.
But I was open to be mind-blown, surprised & delighted around every corner.
Like…
- this melt in your mouth steak I ate
- my daughter’s eye appt being done in only 20 minutes when we thought it would be a 2 hour appt leaving us with less time to wander around
- finding this twisting mulberry tree
- watching a musical fountain light show
- passionate & smoldering moments with my partner, etc. (like when he literally got down on his knees to worship how much he loves my ass)
see some snippets below from our day trip…
We took a family day vacation 1.5 hours away & had the best time actually living our lives.
Which is the whole point of WHY I launch my offerings.
To make money, fulfill my soul, serve others AND because it will help me to live my life.
But I get to do that NOW & along the whole way/during the entire launch.
I told my friend Lauren the other day that I’m redefining what selling & launching mean & how it gets to feel — as I continue to do.
And that I want to focus on living my life while I happen to be selling at the same time.
What if launching just gets to be a simple as: live life, post something on my heart to serve people, follow any other inspired (turned on) ideas, celebrate, repeat.
Instead of the launch being this pressured, tense, boring, isolating time where it’s all work & no play.
Or I feel pressured to sustain “high energy” for 2-3 weeks.
Fuck that!
Don’t forget that you get to make the rules, have fun, be human and let it be even easier & hotter.💋
I was planning to “publicly” open my 30 Day Mind-Blowing Money Sex Magic Incubator on Monday…
But in the name of redefining launching, I’m going to sell because I feel like it. Even though the sales page isn’t done.
It’s $444 right now for a limited time!
If you want to spend the next 30 days (starting august 1st) playing in the energy of “my $ desire is done and it blew my fucking mind how it happened!”
Then I invite you to join my 30 Day Mind-Blowing Money Sex Magic Incubator🐍🔥💋
I’ve extended the $444 price through 7/27 — it goes up to $777 after.
We start August 1st.
Are you in?