As you’ll hear in this week’s episode of the Reclaiming Your Eroticism podcast, I’ve had quite an interesting journey with vaginal sex over the years.
It was only about five years ago now that penetration for me was my least favorite sexual activity, because it was either numb, painful or unfulfilling.
I would often think to myself things like…
- I wish he’d hurry up and finish
- When will it be over so I can roll over and go to sleep or finish watching that episode on Netflix?
- Is this really all there is? Is this how sex is going to be for the rest of my life? Is THIS it?
- What’s wrong with me? Why am I so broken? Sex doesn’t feel that good and I can’t orgasm with him…
If you’re feeling any of this, know that you’re not alone AND it’s not permanent.
Penetration is literally my favorite thing now…it feels so orgasmic…(never thought I’d be saying that!) and I can’t wait to share some of what’s helped me so you can try it out for yourself, play around and see what works for you.
In this episode I talk about…
- Why vaginal sex has been so deeply fulfilling and pleasurable for me lately and how you can start to cultivate it in your own sex life
- Erotic rituals and sexual practices you can do in a practical way to open yourself up to deeper fucking and thoroughly get off from penetration
- What I mean by getting off during penetration and how it’s so much deeper than what you probably think it is
- My journey with vaginal penetration and the exact tools, rituals and practices I’ve used to go from feeling underfucked, numb and unfulfilled sexually to being deeply fucked, pleasured and fulfilled
- The surprising elements to experiencing deep fucking and lovemaking
- How to figure out what you need to have met before you can truly open yourself up to this level deep penetration
- Why deep fucking is also called “core fucking” and how it helps you become more connected to your truth, authentic erotic expression and soul
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This podcast is explicit and NSFW so make sure to put on headphones or do what you need to do to listen with pleasure, comfort and safety.
There are a lot of FUCKS dropped in this episode. You’ve been warned.
Thanks for listening and enjoy, lover…
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RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST EPISODE:
Secret Bad Girl (book) by Rachael Maddox
Is Your Current Erotic Identity Holding You Back? video
Reclaiming Your Eroticism Play & Exploration Group (for womxn) on Facebook
Instagram Post about Penetration
Fears Loves Desires by Layla Martin
Part of opening yourself up to deep fucking and thoroughly enjoying and getting off during penetration is being willing and able to surrender.
- Sometimes we have shame, trauma and conditioning that block us from feeling safe or ready to surrender.
- Sometimes our pussy is so numb, shut down or contracted that penetration feels like nothing at all or is excruciatingly painful.
- Sometimes we’re so disconnected from our eroticism that we have no idea what we desire, like or need in order to be open to penetration like this.
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love and eros,
Amber
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