How to Give a Handjob With Your Vagina

As a woman you have the ability to cultivate your own pleasure through different sexual skills and practices, like using a jade egg. 

But did you know that when you awaken your pussy, erotic power and sexual energy and ignite your own pleasure through a regular jade egg practice that you can use your vaginal skills to bring your lover more pleasure, too?

There’s a technique known as ‘milking’ which means you use the dexterity, supple strength and vaginal control to essentially milk or massage your partner’s cock. It’s basically giving a “handjob” with your vagina!

You can also do this with a finger, pleasure wand (crystal dildo) or anything else you choose to consciously penetrate yourself with.

This brings a man (or anyone with a cock) great pleasure. It also brings YOU great pleasure. I don’t believe that sex is about one person.

It’s about two people, uniting in the name of erotic love.

It’s two people seeking, giving, receiving pleasure.

Not to mention how good it feels inside of a woman’s vagina when she is over-flowing with lubrication. When she’s open. And wet.

When you learn to isolate and train your vaginal muscles to strengthen and release fully it creates more feeling, sensation, aliveness and pleasure for you. It also means that you have more control in the pleasure department, for both you and your partner.

If you feel like your lover is nearing ejaculation, you can slow him down with your vaginal muscles. You can stroke, massage and ‘milk’ his cock to bring him more pleasure, which most likely will bring YOU more pleasure too.

I don’t know about you, but I love worshiping a man’s cock and bringing him pleasure brings me pleasure. My pleasure brings him pleasure. It’s a cycle of feeding one another with connection, love and pleasure.

Not to mention how amazing it feels to know that you have access to more sensation, orgasmic feelings and even emotions when you massage the inside of your vagina with a jade egg.

It awakens more for YOU, which means you can show up fully embodied in your own pleasure and share that with another person.

Imagine seeing how turned on your lover will get. How you can drive them wild, bring them more pleasure and be more playful, intimate and connected with them.

Whether you are ‘milking’ a penis or dildo or finger, it benefits you too. Massaging the inside of your vagina awakens the neural, energy and pleasure pathways. This stirs up your sexual energy and pleasure, which also feeds your lover.

Our life-force (sexual energy) is what brings someone pleasure. It’s fuel.

So yes, learning to connect back to your pussy and cultivate a strong but supple and open vagina through isolating the three sections of your vagina will benefit you and your lover tremendously. Press play to learn more about how to give your lover a handjob with your vagina!

Milking or learning to give a vaginal hand job is a little more advanced than typical kegel exercises, by the way, which is why using a jade egg to train yourself is so phenomenal and why maintaining your practice regularly is important.

A jade egg will help you build up the supple strength and dexterous, flexible strength and control required, like that of a hand.

That takes practice, patience and time, but it’s so well worth it. So if you want to learn the art of milking and how to give your lover a hand job he’ll never forget with your vagina, download a free copy of my Jade Egg Sexual Mastery ebook and begin your practice today.

Doors are open until tomorrow night for my 9-week jade egg online course Jade Egg Sexual Mastery. So if you want to go deeper with all of this and specifically learn the actual skills and techniques to train yourself for milking through a regular jade egg practice, check details out or sign up if you’re intrigued.

I teach a mini course called the Art of Milking which is a bonus for the course if you sign up. In the Art of Milking you receive a bonus jade egg routine designed specifically for preparing you for your vagina handjob aka milking experience. I also have a guide that takes you step-by-step into how to milk your lover’s cock from start to finish. If you know what I mean.