I have a confession to make and it’s not that easy for me to admit it to you because I’ve been releasing a LOT of patriarchal and personal conditioning around it over the past few years…and it’s been a journey, for sure.
It excites me to finally embrace this side of myself, but it still makes me a little nervous to tell you about it, because I know it’s something a lot of women struggle with.
Here goes…
I love cock. I mean really love cock. And I don’t just mean I love how it gives me pleasure. I mean I finally truly deeply wholeheartedly love what cock represents.
You know that I go on and on about how our pussy is the source of our power, pleasure, beauty, magnetism and receptivity.
It’s the ultimate expression of our sacred feminine, sensual, erotic and orgasmic self.
The same goes with cock.
A man’s cock is his ultimate expression of his sacred masculine, sensual, erotic and orgasmic self.
It’s the source of his power, pleasure, masculinity, presence, consciousness and ability to penetrate us on all levels – not just sexually, but mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
There’s a lot of programming out there that women should fear cock, because of what it represents from a shadow, unhealthy, Patriarchal lens.
Feeling that way towards a man’s masculinity and his cock (the physical extension of his heart, power, pleasure and penetrative consciousness) doesn’t feel true or right for me anymore.
My amazing partner has taught me so much about this without either of us realizing it.
I love worshipping his cock. I love looking at it – and I mean really looking at it, with respect, appreciation and love – honoring it, worshipping it.
I love touching, stroking, massaging, licking, sucking and bringing him pleasure and appreciating his masculine power and all he provides for me, sexually and in our relationship and life together.
As Samantha says in Sex & the City, “Who we are in bed is who we are in life.” So not only does his cock represent what he can provide and penetrate within my body, heart and soul during sex, but what he provides and penetrates within me in our life together.
When a man feels worshiped by his woman, he feels seen, heard, witnessed and accepted for his innate masculinity. His very nature as a man. The core of WHO he is as a man and a soul.
Most women fear men, emasculate them or treat them like they’re the very source of our misery. I totally get where it comes from, but this paradigm needs to die off so we can both worship one another’s genitals, hearts and souls.
I used to be terrified to look at a man’s penis when I was giving him head. I felt like it was a chore or an obligation and I often resented my ex’s in the past when they asked me to give them head.
Now I love giving my man head. I love what it brings out in ME and I love what it brings out in HIM.
I love how I feel when I’m going down on him, worshiping his very source of masculinity and not only that, but gifting that to him from an empowered, loving, open and sensually turned on and excited place within myself.
Giving him head FEELING like the goddess I am. I feel turned on. Like it’s a gift to see him unravel into pleasure and reveal new sides of himself to me.
I love the way it feels to ignite my senses and taste him fully.
I love shedding fear and removing old conditioning and honoring the divinity within the man I love so much while embodying my own divinity.
Today I’m honored to reveal some of my personal cock worship secrets so you can give your partner head feeling like a goddess. And by that I mean feeling juicy, turned on, excited, passionate and confidently empowered!
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Yes, this can all be applied if your partner or lover is female.
Watch the video below on cock worship secrets here and activate your inner goddess!
If you find this video bringing up anything inside of you (anger, fear, repulsion, insecurity, shame, etc.) now is the time to look inwards and see what’s keeping you in fear, shame, anxiety or repulsion of cock.
Empowering my own pussy and tapping into my very source of power, pleasure, receptivity and orgasmic potential is what has allowed me to truly accept, honor and worship the same essence in my masculine partner and his cock. One of the greatest tools for this pussy empowerment journey has been the jade egg practice.
If you want to learn how to create an open, orgasmic, supple pelvis and vagina through a jade egg practice, check out my free Jade Egg Sexual Mastery ebook.
I would love for you to share this video with any woman (or your lover!) in your life to spread the cock worship love! You can subscribe to my YouTube channel here to stay updated with my weekly video.
Now an invitation for you to go deeper:
- What does the concept of cock worship bring up for you?
- How does your body respond?
- If you peel back any layers of fear, shame, anger, etc. what’s truly underneath the conditioning?
- How would it feel to worship your partner’s cock?
With so much cock worship love,
Amber
I’ve been reading your blog for awhile now but have never commented. But this post really spoke to me. I am a 40yr old straight female. I’m in the 2nd year of a horrible divorce from a man that emotionally abused me for 12yrs. Sex with in my marriage was a chore, something I submitted to weekly to shut him up. I hated sex with him but before I was married I was very sexual and enjoyed my fair share of partners. I gave head willingly before marriage but something has changed since I’ve moved on from him. I love fucking, I love sex and I love worshipping cock. It makes me so wet that I’ve actually dripped on my boyfriend while I was giving him head. We enjoy somewhat rough animalistic sex as much as we love gentle love making. I’ve never felt more open with someone and able to express all that I am feeling. It is absolutely amazing. To go from thinking there was something hormonally wrong with me (turns out being married to an asshole is bad for your libido) to being more turned on and satisfied than I have ever been is amazing. Keep up the great work on the blog. I really enjoy reading it and watching your videos.
Hi Lori,
Thank you so much for commenting. I’m so happy to hear that you’ve been able to transition into a relationship that allows you to experience your true sexual potential and pleasure. Being able to worship our partners and receive so much pleasure in the experience is such a beautiful thing. So much love to you!
xx
Amber