For most of my life I feared my sexuality so deeply that it stopped me from fully owning and embodying my true erotic nature, power and pleasure. It held me back from showing up as the real me in my relationships and sex life. I showed up as the timid, shy version of...
Over the years, I’ve learned a lot of techniques, practices and skills for extending, deepening and expanding my experience of orgasm. I went from only being able to have one style of orgasm (an external clitoral orgasm that lasted about 10 seconds, leaving me...
I remember the first time I was called a slut in Jr High school. It was a rumor spread by my alleged best friend who said that I had been fingered in a hot tub by some random dude on summer break. I was 15. What was actually true about that situation? I had been in a...
For years I felt uncomfortable and awkward in my own sexuality. Seduction wasn’t something I was good at. Any attempts I made with old lovers were met with jokes, rejection or comments about what I looked like or what was wrong with my body — the opposite of feeling...
Have you ever felt like your relationship…which was once filled with passionate sex, staying up past Midnight to have deep conversations and so much erotic tension between you that it felt like a current of electricity…has now turned into a platonic...
Over the past five years I’ve done a lot (and I mean A LOT) of shadow work and integration practices, especially around my sexuality. I’ve used sexual shadow integration to shed sexual shame, embrace and integrate my shadows and uncover my deepest erotic...
