I remember the first time I was called a slut in Jr High school. It was a rumor spread by my alleged best friend who said that I had been fingered in a hot tub by some random dude on summer break. I was 15. What was actually true about that situation? I had been in a...
In today’s episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, we’re exploring all of the ways that you might be hiding who you truly are in the bedroom… This could be the literal ways that you hide like only having sex if the lights are off or not...
I had the freakiest…yet most erotic…sex dream last night. You’re probably going to be just as surprised and maybe even as weirded out as I was when I woke up. By the way, I had literal multiple orgasms in this dream. When I woke up I was like...
For years I felt uncomfortable and awkward in my own sexuality. Seduction wasn’t something I was good at. Any attempts I made with old lovers were met with jokes, rejection or comments about what I looked like or what was wrong with my body — the opposite of feeling...
Today I was triggered by another womxn on Instagram. I was looking at her profile and thinking to myself…”Wow. She really has it together. She’s so much better than me. She’s totally connected to her pussy.” “She’s so...
Over the past five years I’ve done a lot (and I mean A LOT) of shadow work and integration practices, especially around my sexuality. I’ve used sexual shadow integration to shed sexual shame, embrace and integrate my shadows and uncover my deepest erotic...
