I’ve been having orgasms since I was about two years old, but it took me a very long time in order to achieve a vaginal orgasm with a partner.
The truly sad fact is that about 75% of women never experience a vaginal orgasm from penetration.
If you’re in this statistical group you’re not alone and trust me, there’s hope for you.
Women are naturally orgasmic…it’s just that we’ve lost our way and somehow stumbled off of our erotic path and into a space of being turned off, unfulfilled and disconnected from our pleasure, sexual energy and orgasmic potential.
I used to think that I’d never be able to experience a vaginal orgasm. I was the queen of clitoral orgasms, but I couldn’t handle being penetrated without pain, numbness or discomfort being present.
This stopped me from having the deep pleasure and vaginal orgasms I craved and somehow intuitively knew I was capable of experiencing.
I bet if you place a hand on your heart and a hand over your pussy right now, close your eyes and breathe down into her that you’ll be able to feel the pulse of your erotic nature deep inside of you.
You’ll be able to feel that you are definitely orgasmic and that your potential for pleasure and orgasms is expansive, infinite and never-ending.
Once I had my first vaginal orgasm from fingering myself on a vacation when I was a pre-teen I was hooked on the feeling of ecstasy it created inside of my vagina.
The openness, the depth, the wetness.
The feeling of flow and deep, expansive eruption that left me quivering.
I also knew there was more pleasure to be had for me.
Not only was I able to have really pleasurable clitoral orgasms, but now my fingers were magic. I could stroke myself alive even more!
Fast forward several more years and many bad relationships and sexual scenarios that shut my pussy (and heart) down later and I had to retrain my vagina to have an orgasm internally again.
You can read more about that experience here where I recreated my first time using the rose quartz dildo I got from Chakrubs.
Once I was able to have vaginal orgasms during my self-pleasure sessions again I was elated.
I wanted more.
I wanted someone deep inside of me, pulsing thick and hard while I came around his cock.
The first time I experienced an orgasm vaginally during sex with an ex of mine I felt like I’d found the Holy Grail.
After all, society tells us that the female orgasm is elusive or non-existent. It’s basically the unicorn of orgasms! Fuck that, I say.
Vaginal orgasms do not have to be elusive or feel impossible. With the right tools, techniques and mindset (super important), you can achieve a vaginal orgasm too.
By tools I don’t mean you need a bunch of gadgets or ridiculous sex positions. There’s a deeper path to experiencing your vaginal orgasm (or any orgasm) and I want to share it with you in my latest video.
Click play to learn more about the 3 steps to having a vaginal orgasm. I also have some juicy bonus tips in there too if you really want to supercharge your vaginal orgasm or make it come quicker…pun totally intended…
SIDE NOTE: The jade egg has been one of my favorite tools that has helped me not only heal the relationship with my pussy and sexuality, but also helped me fully expand my orgasmic potential…and I’m just getting started. There is always so much more pleasure and orgasms to be encountered when you live your life on the path to becoming/being your orgasm.
Check out my full jade egg resource page here to learn more.
You can also download a copy of my jade egg ebook here.
I would love for you to share this video with any woman in your life who needs to hear some inspiration about her orgasm. Or if you have a lover you want to help you experience a vaginal (or better) orgasm.
Drop me a comment below and let me know:
- Have you had a vaginal orgasm before?
- How did it unfold for you?
- If not, what do you feel like is keeping you from experiencing this?
Much love,
Amber