It’s deeply healing for the part of me who feels like she’s “too much” when I give myself permission to create and offer a wide variety of programs and art in my business.
One minute I’m talking about how to make more sales in a pleasurable way…
…the next it’s Mary Magdalene, courtesans and priestesses, being in erotic leadership, then dark feminine, tapping into your Domme persona, witchcraft, regulating your nervous system, making more money, being a hedonist, healing from incontinence, being a well fucked mother…
I know that my form of activism and work helps women experience three core values my brand and business stands for:
EROS
FREEDOM
POWER
Eros = a fully alive woman, vitality, life-force, turn on, desire, magnetism.
Freedom = choice, options, wildness, self ownership and expression, you get to be, do, have, experience whatever the fuck you want.
Power = internal, personal, sovereign, regulated sense of ownership over oneself, commanding, connected to who the fuck you are on the deepest level.
The patriarchy is designed to keep a woman disconnected from all of this, because it means you can be domesticated, oppressed and controlled just like they want you to be.
But when a woman breaks free and connects to her turn on and power?
Has her own money, property and wealth?
Knows her worth from within?
Knows she’s magnetic and magical? Powerful enough to command her desires into existence and that the universe will bend to her will?
She is a force of fucking nature.
The pathways we use to get there in my work?
Sex, pleasure, kink, the erotic, money and wealth, business, sales, leadership, nervous system regulation, orgasm, motherhood (for some), witchcraft and dark feminine rituals.
No matter what I’m talking about, offering, teaching…no matter how surface level or “frivolous” it seems…
IT’S ESSENTIAL WORK FOR WOMEN TO DO.
All of these defy the Patriarchy and restore a woman to her inherent state of eros, power and freedom. This work is urgent, necessary, a priority.
Not emergency urgent…like you need to be freaking out…but like a knowing that as a woman, you need to be well resourced, regulated, as relaxed, grounded and connected to your power as possible.
When you’re regulated, relaxed and well resourced your capacity to hold the sensations of life AND take aligned for you actions increases.
You have the capacity to show up differently than you do when you’re dysregulated, frozen, stuck, freaking out.
This is what we need to be grounded in right now so we can unite from a place of feeling connected, resourced, empowered from within.
Like you actually have a role to do. Like you can take one small action. Whether it’s towards activism, your desire for more money, a dream job, your art, etc.
You confidently make the YouTube video. Or write the edgy post. Send the email setting a boundary with a client. Put out the offer you want to sell out with eager paying clients.
It’s 1000x easier when it’s fueled with eros energy and supported by a regulated nervous system and relaxed body.
No matter where you live, I know you can always benefit from more…erotic practice, nervous system regulation, pleasure and feeling connected to your power, aliveness, magnetism, sense of freedom and resourcefulness.
The world needs you. It’s true. You really do matter. You really are that fucking powerful.
The world also needs you to be your most wealthy, well fucked and well paid self, because that’s when you can make the biggest, deepest difference. That’s when your resources can overflow, redistribute, infiltrate, spread out.
In your own life, your home, your lineage, your community, with your own clients/ work/art/business/movement and activism.