Like a lot of young children who have vulvas, I discovered my clitoris at a very young age. I was two years old the first time I felt the exquisite sensual and sexual pleasure of a clitoral orgasm from rubbing my body against anything I could manage to come in contact with.
This exploration is completely normal and natural. As children, in our full erotic innocence, it’s completely natural to discover and explore our genitals and to feel gratification from stroking them or rubbing them against things. Even to do this with other children.
Discovering the powerful pleasure of your genitals is a new sensual experience just like eating a piece of chocolate for the first time, seeing the sunlight stream through a window for the first time with fresh newborn eyes or the first time you hear music.
A lot of us are unconsciously shamed into hiding our pleasure as children. There may be trauma associated with it as well or simply the feeling that it’s bad, dirty or wrong somehow.
If you ever experienced a moment where you were innocently pleasuring your clitoris and someone walked in and reacted in a way that made your body recoil or shut down with shame, then it’s possible that clitoral orgasm may have become your naughtiest little secret.
The thing you do behind closed doors in a matter of minutes with your favorite vibrator. This was my experience anyway. I became addicted to quick clitoral orgasms because it was a quick hit of dopamine…followed by some intense shame and pelvic pain.
I never knew what was possible in terms of pleasure and orgasmic states until I learned how to slow down and pleasure my clitoris in a whole new way. A way that is subtle yet powerful. A way that is slow like warm honey being drizzled yet builds even more pleasure than the usual intense, fast, hard stimulation I used to need.
There’s no right or wrong way to explore your body or to pleasure your body, including your clitoris. I also know that the more we expand our orgasmic capacity, the more we expand what we can experience sexually.
I want to share my secrets for extending your clitoral orgasms and expanding that pleasure into a state of deeper and higher ecstasy. Most people I talk to have no idea how much pleasure the clitoris can actually generate and experience…
In this video I want to share how you can reach an extended orgasmic state through clitoral stimulation and the 6 keys to orgasmically training yourself for extended (clitoral) orgasms.
It’s totally possible to experience extended orgasmic states and even whole body orgasms from stroking your clitoris.
Check out my videos on the difference between extended orgasms and peak orgasms and 3 ways to expand your clitoral orgasms into whole body orgasms.
Having a regular daily practice where you connect to your pussy and sexual energy is also incredibly important in your orgasmic training for deeper, extended and expanded pleasure and orgasms.
Download my Orgasmic Breathwork practice HERE to get started.
For a limited time you can also sign up for my Orgasmic Pleasure Course, which is a 6-week guided transformational online course on cultivating a deeply sexual relationship with yourself and expanding your pleasure and orgasm into a whole body experience through self pleasure and sexual energy work!
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With love,
Amber