For most of my life I’ve struggled with problems in my sexual regions, including vaginal pain and tension. As someone who’s really into holistic sexuality I now understand that there were a few different reasons for my struggles with painful vaginal sex.
Deeply embedded shame.
Years of unconscious penetration and conventional sex where my body, heart and pussy weren’t honored or given the proper amount of time to fully arouse, open or engorge.
Having sex with men who I didn’t trust or really want inside of me. Often I wasn’t ready for vaginal sex and agreed anyway, because I wanted to be loved or I felt obligated to say yes.
All of these moments (plus so many other moments and reasons, which I’ll share with you in the video) layered on top of each other inside of my pussy, causing my vagina to shut down. So anytime I tried to engage in penetration it was tight, tense, painful or I experienced burning sensations.
I spent years frustrated and in tears, secretly hoping that it would get better one day. I’d suffer through the pain, cringing and pretending that it felt good when deep down inside I felt like a part of me was dying a long, slow, violent death.
I want you to know that if you’re struggling with painful vaginal sex right now, you’re not alone. And it’s also not permanent. You’re not broken. Nothing is wrong with you. You aren’t damaged goods. You aren’t stuck this way forever.
I’ve done so much healing around my vulva and vagina and I’m grateful that I now understand what my vaginal pain was trying to tell me. Chances are your vaginal pain has a much deeper source than you might think.
I’ve spent the past several years practicing healing methods and modalities and doing the deep inner and outer work to cultivate an orgasmic pussy and I’ve learned some tools along the way that will help you heal the relationship with your own pussy so that you can move from vaginal pain or tension to deep vaginal pleasure and orgasms.
Click play below to learn more about what causes vaginal pain, how you can heal and how you can open yourself up to feeling more pleasure when it comes to vaginal sex or penetration.
Learn how to de-armor your vagina in this video.
If you want to learn more about creating a solo sexual ritual through the jade egg practice and bring more awareness, sensation and pleasure to your vagina, then download my ebook, 7 Jade Egg Secrets for Deeper Vaginal Pleasure & Orgasms.
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Amber